Doc Mervyn on the Ties that Bind

From years of practice, I have found whenever trouble comes around,

Mervyn is all tied up in his practice

It comes down to communication. This has been my observation.

He claims she is too demanding. She says he lacks understanding.

Neither one knows how to listen, so there's lots of truth they're missing.

Every day they lay a brick, till the wall between gets thick.

Then at last it's too much work. She is "whiny". He's a "jerk."

No remedial elixir can reform him, or can fix her.

 

How could all this be prevented? How can couples be contented?

As you know, I'm Doctor Mervyn. What I'd do, if I were Merlin,

I would wave my magic wand, strengthening each loving bond.

 

But they have powers they scarcely know; the power to change: the power to grow.

Except a gargoyle, tomb or throne, nothing's ever carved in stone.

Change can happen instantly if they think it needs to be.

I recommend a book by Bears. Happiness replaces cares.

 

All the symptoms and description come down to this one prescription:

"If your life is in a mess, you need a dose of happiness."

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